forgive.is that a verb?

there's this song that were sung by an indonesian group..
fine it was a song from dewa..
the title is cintailah cinta.

the song kind of tell something about forgiving..
i was listening to it one nite(becoz it's in my mp3 playlist, get it?)
it goes like this:

'bila kebencian meracunimu takkan ada ruang yang untuk kita saling
menyayangi,jika masih ada cinta di hatimu maka maafkan lah
segala kesalahan'

it's a way of telling people to forgive and forget..
like totally forget..

and it says that if there's a love in your heart maybe you could just happen to forgive people..

more like if ur a person with love and a good person then, forgive..

and it just come up to me that i never actually forgive anyone..

my whole life,
i can still describe every single terrible thing that happen to
me..like what people did..

i just learn something that i never actually forgive anyone..

that's like the most difficult thing to do..
forgive and just forget..

it's still there..
the scar..

wut they did..

and even in years it still hurts because i never forget
and forgive..

that's like the most difficult thing for me to do..

and the memory of it..

that time, that very moment..

the thing that happen,
wut she did..

was far from wut i call forgetting..
it's hard and still there..

and i guess forgiving people is for someone that
really can..totally capable of doing it..

because it's not easy to forgive


and forget.